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Wendy Wright's avatar

I just can’t walk past a book shop without going in & buying at least one magical connection to another, nicer world! You said it all 📚📚📚📚

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Allie Dunin's avatar

Exactly! It's just too tempting

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IANA SOLAR's avatar

This really made me pause... and laugh a little — in that quiet “oh no, she’s right” kind of way.

But hey — what about the book lover’s apocalypse scenario?!

The power's out, the grid’s down, the Wi-Fi is extinct…

And there you are — surrounded by actual books, like a wizard of paper and ink!

Jokes aside — book collecting is one of the most beautiful forms of conscious curation.

Some books sit on the shelf for years… and then one day — bam!

You open it and it’s exactly what your soul needed right now. That’s intuition, not impulse.

But yes — I agree: no shelf is infinite.

So maybe if we buy new books, we also ask:

"What can I gift? What can I release?"

Let the books breathe — let them move, not stagnate.

Circulation is wiser than hoarding!

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Reader By Choice's avatar

Libraries and book shops bring my soul a lot of comfort. U love reading and also having unread books around me.

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Allie Dunin's avatar

Yes! Books bring me a type of comfort I cannot find anywhere else.

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anne marie's avatar

Cover art does me in often. Sometimes it pays off (a bright florescent pink cover that I couldn't resist turned into a book I couldn't stop thinking about). Sometimes it's just a pretty face 🤷‍♀️ Either way, I had the joy and privilege of supporting my local bookstore or bring a patron at my local library.

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Lana Smith's avatar

Eeeekkk this was so nice and relatable to read thank you for sharing ✨🌹🕊️

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Becky Butler's avatar

Oh this was a dangerous essay for someone who buys way too many books (but I so loved it). You summed it up exactly! Buying a book isn’t just buying an item it’s buying an unlimited experience!! It’s collecting life philosophies it’s very beautiful!!

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Lark's avatar

Thank you for articulating my own thoughts/feelings about this topic so well. I'm right there with you.

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amandine bula's avatar

I felt so seen while reading this – I’m sure many fellow book lovers will feel the same ❤️

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Allie Dunin's avatar

Aww that's so nice to hear, Amandine - I love hearing that I'm not alone in being a blood lover/obsessor ❤️ P.S. I love your Substack!!

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amandine bula's avatar

I’m so glad you found my Substack because I’m completely obsessed with yours too! 😍

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Kelpie's avatar

if the bookshop has staff reviews, 100% I'll find at least one. the last one is called Salt slow by Julia Armfield

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Allie Dunin's avatar

Staff reviews are the best! Their entire job is to read and think about books - who better to trust for book recs!!

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Quinn Wang, MD's avatar

Love this and totally agree! Buying a book is one of my favorite treats :)

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Allie Dunin's avatar

Yes!! Buying a book is such a treat

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